One doctor said he is a ticking time bomb. I have been in Alanon for 10 years, which helps with the addiction part. I have been dealing with my Mother for 12 years slowly but surely losing her mind, and health.
I visit her everyday, however she has deteriorated so much in these last few days that I just cry uncontrolably.
Me, my 2 sons and my husband got her bedroom door slammed in our face and no good bye that day. I miss both my son and my husband so incredibly much.
Shes put him first above anyone else. I am worried about her and our relationship. I think she had a large amount of steroid injected into her back. Despite all this I have a good life. Melinda D Scott August 8, at 5: About 4 years ago she started to develop stenosis of the spine.
I can feel that I am loosing her and feel so guilty for the times I got impatient and rude with her. However about a year and a half ago she had spinal injections. I personally miss her a lot because we were the closest, I miss the old her.
It scares me everyday, wondering when will it happen. She was not the same person afterwards. Even though the doctors have said he may not need another surgery for 20 years….
I miss my children so much, I am missing out on watching them grow up. I just want her to come home and make up for it and give her love and attention. I am the one who has to provide for the family, make major decisions, plan and pay for anything we do as a family, and keep the peace in my home.
Everything I say or do puts him in a rage. My mom is 40 and she used to be such a wonderful, loving, and kind person but now she changed completely. She refused to go to the doctor. I just need the support and someone to talk to and vent my wooriness. And, watching my two youngest kids trying to grow up with one responsible parent me and one sick parent who changes the rules, and his mood, daily is breaking my heart.
Due to this her muscles started to atrophy! He told me how much he loved me the whole time. She is a very religious person as well. I miss him so much. She was great company. I have been understanding! So, I was the natural fit for taking her to the major surgeries, the recoveries, the her moving in with me, etc.
So, therapy does no good. My son is doing ok now, and living with my mother. He now has two aneurysm in his aorta. So feel like im going through double the amount of grief. She did exercise classes, she was making friends.
I feel like my world has fallen apart. My hubby May 11, at 3: She barely talks to me and my brother anymore; only if she needs help with money or something else, she says she never has time for us but — is always out with her friends.
My mum is 67 still young. I am blocked on thier social media and when they do communicate its only to spew hate at me. She enjoyed being a new grandmother too.My guess is that when people read the title of this article they will react with either a, “what are they talking about?
How can someone be grieving someone who is still alive and what the heck is ambiguous grief???” or a “holy crap, yes!Download